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Resting the hibernation !! 
11th-May-2011 04:02 pm
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I missed this space of my life. I just realized what a big loss it was not to log my feelings here all these months. Over these 6 months, life has changed a lot, mostly for good, but I feel a big gap, especially staying away from LJ for long. Luckily, I have been tracking friend's pages, so I dont have too much to catch up on.

Sometime last year, on December 4th, I fell in love for the nth time, luckily this time, I never got my heart back. I live on somebody else's who lost his to me. Three months of families processing the matrimony activities, I got married to Arun(A) on March 7th this year. With jobs in 2 cities, his in Mumbai and mine at Bangalore, I never realized how these two months flew by. A and I have made a lot of compromises making this marriage work, one of them being living in distance cities and spending our time tracking and blocking our travel calender to be together. Many people still wonder, why I got married when I could have waited for our jobs to settle. Sometimes, when life shows you good things, it is better not to postpone having them :)

My life at Bangalore hasnt changed much, I still live with my brother, and I fly out at every opportunity to meet A. Though we havent started living as the true husband-wife yet, my life is complete now, A is definitely a  huge bonus to my life, I owe him a lot, my life couldnt have got better than this. All these years of yearning to be someone's, is fulfilled now :)

I turned 30 last month, and this was another significant moment of my life, and I am glad I spent the day with my parents and A at our Chennai home. Shedding all those 20 something tags wasn't very easy, but with new beginnings in life, sometimes it is easy to take up changes all together :) And there are always birthday gifts to pamper and divert your attention, away from thoughts of getting older.

I am not very content at work as before, but I have more things to look forward to, especially looking for Finance/Banking jobs for A in Bangalore. We have got calls from only one company so far and still awaiting feedback on the interviews. Prayers never cease.
Comments 
11th-May-2011 04:32 pm (UTC)
Wow! Congratulations Aneeta! Hope the 30s continue to bring you such joy :)
11th-May-2011 05:24 pm (UTC)
hey, I didnt know you are still around in LJ :) How are you doing ? Thanks for your wishes, the anipin diary closes officially :)
11th-May-2011 05:15 pm (UTC) - great
Anonymous
cool congrats god bless u anitha enjoyand all the very best
12th-May-2011 11:43 am (UTC) - Re: great
Thank you. Would love to know your identity
11th-May-2011 07:00 pm (UTC)
Wow, great news! Congratulations my dear! :-) Women rock in their 30's and sounds like you kicked off these years with a very positive bang! I wish both you and your new husband a very happy marriage (and closer jobs)! :-)
12th-May-2011 03:34 am (UTC)
Thanks Laxmi :) Congrats to you on your good news too :)
Wishing you and Sridhar all the best..
11th-May-2011 11:52 pm (UTC)
Anonymous
First, hearty congratulations!:-)

Second, very glad to read a new post.

Wish you both all the best in this new journey.

- Kajan
12th-May-2011 03:25 am (UTC)
Thanks Kajan, I will be more regular here..
12th-May-2011 04:07 am (UTC)
Welcome back, and hope to see you here more often now. Glad to see the happiness in this post!
12th-May-2011 11:42 am (UTC)
Thank You Deponti.. Waiting to see more of Biddles' pics on your next visit :)
14th-May-2011 03:59 pm (UTC) - Congratulations! ;-)
Such posts are supposed to include an invitation for oota. (In your case it should include free tickets to Mumbai too!)
16th-May-2011 08:30 am (UTC) - Re: Congratulations! ;-)
I have to deal with your demands separately :)
16th-May-2011 08:39 am (UTC) - Thank You!!!!
Yay!!! Free tickets to Mumbai!!!! You da best!
15th-May-2011 01:37 pm (UTC)
A much needed update, as far as your lj is concerned! My fondest wishes for you! I do hope to be able to see more of you on lj in the days to come..
Take care!
16th-May-2011 08:31 am (UTC)
Thanks Prashanth.. Bcos of friends like you, I always like coming back to LJ :)
16th-May-2011 07:30 am (UTC)
What?!! When!! how!! Sad you dint keep me updated :((
But thats like great!! marvelous!! A very hearty congratulations, am so happy for you :)
I just checked, you are not online.. Next time u login to gtalk, dont forget to ping me.
16th-May-2011 08:35 am (UTC)
Thanks a lot :) Trust me, it was full of drama, I kept forcing everyone to get me married to this guy, and no one believed I was doing the right thing..I will ping you gtalk soon, and btw, before I forget to tell you, I follow all of your FB updates and Tarun, he is the cutest little fellow I have ever seen all my life, you must be one very lucky mom, his looks are super intelligent and cool :)
17th-May-2011 03:39 am (UTC)
Talk about surprises !! Congrats and I have my fingers (and toes crossed) that Arun does get a job closer to you or visa versa - having spent 11 months of my married life on opposite sides of planet earth from the husband - i can tell you it's no fun :(
And yayyy on being 30 :)
17th-May-2011 11:31 am (UTC)
Thanks a lot :) 11 months !! thats really a long time.. was it immediately after your wedding ?
20th-May-2011 05:43 am (UTC)
Yup - we met for the first time on Jan 2nd - got engaged on jan 4th and married on Jan 11th - he then went back to NY on jan 20 something - and the next time i met him was dec 20th that year - in many ways it was the best thing that could have happened since we had such a brief "engagement".
20th-May-2011 05:44 am (UTC)
Oh and even better - the first time I met my mom in law was almost a year after i was married (met her in dec when i landed in NY) ...
17th-May-2011 11:47 am (UTC) - Hey
Thats great news....Congragulations!! Though I dont know you that well, have always looked fwd to your posts and this one really caught me by surprise....very happy for you that you found a partner....especially after all the trials and tribulations you have faced in the past....You totally deserve this happiness...All the best wishes to both of you....Keep writing.

I am quite curious to know how you met him? :D
18th-May-2011 06:11 am (UTC) - Re: Hey
Thanks !! Yes, will post shortly on how we met..
18th-May-2011 06:11 am (UTC) - Re: Hey
I follow your journal too, waiting for more posts, esp about your little hero..
18th-May-2011 05:48 am (UTC)
This post really gave me a great surprise...CONGRATSSSSSSSSSSS...i am soo happy for you...geez all that silence and you always come back with a bang....do tell us about how both your paths alligned ;)
sending all my prayers and best wishes to you and arun and your new life together :)
18th-May-2011 06:11 am (UTC)
Thanks !! Yes, will post shortly on how we met..
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